The Simple Way Feng Shui Can Transform Your Life

Tips for De-cluttering

by Christiane Northrup, M.D.

I’ve been renovating my home for a number of months. I moved out of my main living space to a 600-square foot apartment that’s attached to my house. It has everything you need in a tiny footprint, and I’ve gotten used to living with less. In fact, I really liked it. As it became time to move back into my house, I realized that I had been living with a lot of stuff and that piles of it had accumulated in different corners of the house. You know how it is. At first you see it, but after a while it’s just part of the background.

Then something causes you to see it with fresh eyes—perhaps an upcoming visit from your obsessive-compulsive mother-in-law—and you go into a panic. If you’re like a lot of people, you need a plan before you can even begin. If you don’t have a plan, you’re likely to feel overwhelmed and tired before you’ve even done anything. If you don’t know what I mean, take a second to look under your kitchen sink. You’ll be shaking your head, too, wondering how it’s possible that you’ve held onto decrepit looking cleaning products longer than some of your favorite outfits.

What is Feng Shui?

You may not know that there’s a connection between good Feng Shui design and de-cluttering. Feng Shui is the placement of furniture and belongings in a way that supports your lifestyle. Sometimes it supports the life you’re trying to move towards as well. For example, you can change things to welcome more romance, strengthen your finances, improve your health — you name it. I’ve been a fan of Feng Shui for many years and enjoy getting my home just so. Two of my favorite Feng Shui authors are Terah Kathryn Collins, who wrote The Western Guide to Feng Shui, and Karen Kingston, who wrote Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui. Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui is highly motivational, and it’s fun. One thing you learn is that clutter has no place to hide in Feng Shui. Even crammed in a closet, the chi or life’s energy that exists all around you and in your home can get stuck, causing areas of your life to stagnate.

If a Feng Shui expert visits your house, he or she can tell you what areas of your life are likely to be stagnant and problematic just by looking around your house. So I’m no stranger to de-cluttering and I know it has benefits. My ritual usually involves releasing things I want to banish from my life, including relationships, possessions, and cluttered thoughts, which no longer serve. But with the renovation deadline at hand, I needed a little help, a little inspiration, to get my home organized for the next phase. I found that help by way of the Fly Lady (Marla Cilley) at http://www.flylady.net/.

Marla’s advice (and de-cluttering system) is great for anytime, but especially for spring. There’s something about this time of year that makes us want to start fresh, with a clean slate. (I learned a most fascinating tidbit about this today. A massage therapist colleague, who does colonics, said she can always tell it’s spring — the number of people who schedule colonics increases dramatically. Happens every year. Talk about deep cleaning.)

It doesn’t matter where you start, whether inside your body or outside—they’re related. But I recommend that you choose one area and spend just 15 minutes on it. Marla points out that most of us who accumulate clutter are actually perfectionists. We don’t get to the cleaning that needs to be done because we don’t have enough time to do it “perfectionly.” So, we don’t do it at all! The answer is baby steps. Just 15 minutes per day. And a shiny sink.

This approach is contagious. Neatness and a shiny sink breed more neatness and more shiny surfaces over time. The Fly Lady system for creating order works even if you have young children.

Peace eventually replaces the stress of clutter as you get systems in place that really work. Don’t get discouraged.

Related Article: 7 Tips to Organize Your Home Using the Konmari Method.

If the spring’s energy isn’t enough to motivate you, know that clearing your clutter can also save you money, lower your stress level, and may even help you lose weight! People who live in messy spaces end up going to the store to replace something that’s not used up, but rather lost in their own home.

When I was de-cluttering my bathroom, I found eight new toothbrushes and four packages of cotton balls I didn’t know I had. Your living space is a reflection of your inner self. If you’re living in clutter and chaos, don’t be surprised if you have trouble making decisions, have more aches and pains, and are more lethargic than usual. To be healthy, that chi has to circulate, and when it doesn’t circulate freely in your home or in your body—your health can suffer. You become stagnant and stuck. So clear a little clutter.

Just one space that would make your life easier. Then write me and tell me if you notice any changes in your physical body, like weight loss or more energy. I’d also like to know how making changes in your environment contributes to healthier emotions and greater mental clarity.

Of course there’s also the fact that when you remove clutter, you allow exciting, new, fresh things to come into your life automatically! Very exciting stuff. Watch for this to happen. It’s amazing.

Last Updated: April 5, 2011

Christiane Northrup, M.D.

Christiane Northrup, M.D., is a visionary pioneer and a leading authority in the field of women’s health and wellness. Recognizing the unity of body, mind, and spirit, she empowers women to trust their inner wisdom, their connection with Source, and their ability to truly flourish.

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  1. Amanda Hanner
    2 years ago

    Hi Dr. Northrup, I followed what you did years ago fixing the “relationship” corner of my house and experienced the same thing you did. My husband and I divorced. Can you explain this in better detail? I have a friend who has a missing corner in her home. Same thing. The relationship corner. I would love to explain this to her better. I know you can help!

  2. Marge
    8 years ago

    I was initially leery about Feng Shui until a friend swore things changed after reading Lillian Too’s Living with Good Feng Shui book and applying it into her day-to-day life. Googled it and found a copy from Noon Books (www.noon-books.com). I thoroughly enjoyed reading it, applying it and waiting for positive results. I swear life seems to just “flow” now instead of just “chug along” if you know what I mean. Money comes in from unexpected sources and relationships seem to require no effort. Life just seems happier. I can’t explain it, but it works. I guess at the end of the day that’s what it all boils down to. Super thankful I stumbled upon this and gave it a chance.

    1. Christiane L NOrthrup
      8 years ago

      I’m SO glad you did. Feng shui is a way of living. It’s not a “one and done” kind of thing. You begin to see the world with “feng shui” eyes. Thanks so much for sharing this success story!!

    2. Christiane
      8 years ago

      Hi Marge– I am so glad you gave this a try. Feng shui is fascinating. And it doesn’t make any sense to the Western intellect. BUT– it certainly works when you think of everything being connected by intention. It becomes a kind of way of life. You begin to see with “feng shui eyes”. Thanks so much for this upbeat comment.

  3. Robin Wineland
    8 years ago

    Hi, I was wondering what the name of Christine’s daughters book on Feng Shui is? I thought I remember she was talking about it. I have searched and not been able to find it.
    Robin

    1. Christiane
      8 years ago

      Kate doesn’t have a book on Feng Shui. She has a video course. You can find out more here: https://fengshuiforfinancialfreedom.com/ It’s a great course. And many people have found that the tips in her free video really help. Almost immediately. Thanks for asking.

  4. Martha Myers
    9 years ago

    Sounds like great advice. I am encouraged to make improvements.

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