“You’d think by now we’d have gotten the hang of this sex thing. After all, we’ve been at it for 20 years or more. But if you’re feeling the ground has shifted a bit (or a lot), there’s a reason: In midlife, hormones are fluctuating, relationships are changing, and self-esteem is soaring. The net net: Bedroom moments may be more challenging in some ways but can also be much more fun.: Excerpted from How to have Great Sex, May 2009
